Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Legislating Morality - Same Sex Marriage



As introduced by my prior post, the Prologue, I take real issue with the voting majority using the political process and legislative branch to limit individual freedoms.  Fundamentally, I believe this is what makes me a Conservative more than a Republican.  In short, I believe the government exists to perform necessary tasks that cannot be efficiently or effectively carried out by the private sector, to maintain our safety and freedoms, and otherwise has no place limiting John Q. Citizens right to pursue life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.  This view of government underscores my distaste for inviting big brother to play an oversized role in many areas:  Economics, Foreign Policy, etc.  However, I find the most offensive example of the big government problem in the same sex marriage debate.  I feel this way not because same-sex marriage, SSM, impacts the literal size of the government, but because the opposing side is trying to expand the role of government to legislate their view or morality.

As we discuss the issue, I believe there are two key points that need to be addressed:

The first point is that we as humans are very slow to willingly accept changes to our fundamental views (how marriage is defined).  As such many traditionalists will say that homosexuals can’t wed because marriage has always been between a man and a woman.  Many will cite historical precedent that because it’s always been it needs to continue to be; however, I have a very hard time stomaching that centuries of oppression are grounds for a solid argument.   I don’t understand how this is any different than saying “women don’t deserve equal rights because for centuries (millennia?) they couldn't vote, own property, and didn't have access to higher education.”  Despite the logical fallacies we all know that many times our nation has had to overcome hypocrisy of this sort in seeking equal rights for our citizens.  So now, after we've been here so many times before why is same sex marriage such a challenging national debate? 

This brings us to the second key point; unlike many past equal rights battles religion plays a key role in the same-sex marriage issue.   Embracing civil rights and women’s suffrage at least had the benefit of the moral high ground.  Their effort was to overcome generations of prejudice, racism, and oppression, which are all generally viewed as “bad” things.  However, religion is generally viewed as a “good” thing, and this is where it gets messy.  Advocating for same-sex marriage means you’re not just fighting the inertia of time and tradition, but you’re contesting the will of God, and let’s face it; working against a dogmatic religious following with the reassurance of moral certitude is a mountain exponentially more difficult to climb.  This religious zeal and “moral high ground” have provided SSM opponents with a political platform and a resulting voice in law making they should not have.  We cannot allow gay rights to be ignored because there’s a unique religious enthusiasm to the opposing view.  Doing so is an affront to the basic civil liberties this government is supposed to uphold.    

In the end, this debate will rage on with the same push and pull of prior equal rights battles; however, the religious element must be kept in check.  We as a country must resist the temptation to vote for the legislation of our personal morality.  We must remember that our nation was founded on the premise of equal opportunity for all.  It will be hard as we ask detractors to not only overcome a stereotype, but practice tolerance in the face of what they will view as a sin against their god.  And, in doing so we must put aside out own political biases and do what’s right for our nation.  In the end, I’m not here to tell anyone that they should be in favor of same-sex marriage, but more-so to advocate for the support of individual freedoms.  Many of us reading this blog need to acknowledge that we cannot pick and choose when we wish to apply our advocacy of small government.  This is no time for hypocrisy. 

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